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| Scorpio 07/Oct 13th-Nov 10th 2007 Selfless Love Saturday November 10th/29th of Scorpio Today is the last day of Scorpio! We made it. This month has been about cleansing through the destructive powers of Mars. This month was hard but all pain leads to growth. And I am sure ready for some magic of Sagittarius, more on that tomorrow. For a while, I attended Al-Anon Meetings. These are twelve-step programs for friends and families of alcoholics. I learned many life long lessons from these meetings. I found a lot of parents coping with their alcoholic children. The most important lesson for a friend or family member of an alcoholic is to not take away the consequences of the alcoholic. So many parents or spouses of alcoholics inject too much mercy towards them. Life is a balance of mercy and judgement. Its similar to when a parent reprimands a child; its is wrong to ignore the child's misbehaving and its is also wrong to punish the child cruelly. We need to learn to discipline the child with a loving intention to help the child grow. As such with anyone in our lives who needs help. We need to ask ourselves, "What is really best for this person?" "What will really truly help them to grow?" We must take our own fears and feelings out of the equation and do whats good for them -- not what makes us feel good. For an alcoholic maybe he or she needs a few nights in jail instead of being bailed out by a loved one. In Al-Anon I heard many stories of mothers going through the pain of letting their loved one just be in jail and not coming to their aid so easily. We all need consequences in our life so we can see how we need to change. Eunice Shriver use to tell her daughter Maria, "If I could take away all your problems, I wouldn't." Looking at life with this type of courage and trust really creates a strong independent functional person. And loving someone any other way is just plain selfish. Posted at 316am The Way It Has To Be Thursday November 8th/27th of Scorpio This is a Suzanne Somers' zero carb souffle! Go to suzannesomers.com and learn! In the last 100 years what had been introduced in our diets has not been fat, it has been sugar! High Fructose Corn Syrup and refined flours is what makes us fat and unhealthy (excess sugar is converted into cholesterol). Forget what you think you know and buy her books! This souffle is made with fresh eggs, creme, vanilla and a natural sugar substitute. It's healthy. It's diet food. IT'S DYNAMITE! Posted at 255pm Leadership Success in leadership isn't about charisma, or power, or appearance. It isn't about power, it isn't about control. Success in leadership doesn't take money, manipulation, nepotism or luck. The only thing that brings success in leadership is how you end up treating people and whether you did so with human dignity. Posted at 1215pm Magic Money The concept of tithing has a lot of religious context to it. But isn't there some good things associated with religion? Marriage is pretty nice. And I am sure we can think of other associations that aren't so bad. At any rate tithing is one of those good ideas that religion has brought to us. I believe in it whole-heartedly and many successful people have always tithed. Oprah Winfrey has said to have tithed even when she made 20k a year. And we know what happened to her. Tithing is about removing negativity. Let me explain. The world according to energy experts and scientists consists of ten dimensions. The tenth dimension is where we live. This world bound by gravity, limitations, death and the laws of what can go wrong, will go wrong. When we tithe, we take out 10 percent (one dimension worth) of the our earnings. As a result the money then becomes free from all earthly limitations -- it becomes magic. This money is now able to do more, last longer and be more. According to quantum physics, consciousness changes reality so this concept is possible! Now as example take $2000 of your earning money after taxes. Ten percent would be $200. Leaving you with $1800. Now the choice is what would you rather have: $2000 of regular money or $1800 of Magic Money?! I encourage you to give it a try. Remember the law of physics that states: Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. You give money, you will get money. Not in ways you expect. But in ways you wont even notice! Orsen Wells was known to throw hundreds out the window exclaiming, "I can't get rid of it! The more I give the more comes back!" P.S. Today is the 27th of Scorpio. I just realized that 27 is the number for tithing Posted at 100am In Like a Lion...... Wednesday November 7th/26th of Scorpio Only a few more days left of Scorpio......By Saturday evening the influence of Mars and all its destruction will be gone and the miracles of Jupiter will be shinning strong! Be prepared for all you've been waiting to happen! Posted 1038am Everything Must Change I once read a quote that said something to the effect that man should be not to quick to judge, for his opinion can easily change and then he would be with much regret. I wish I could remember that exact quote, but the point is I have found myself thinking many times that I was so sure about something only to realize later how wrong I was! And then I think back on how sure I thought I was. This is why we cannot force people to believe what we believe, no matter how right we think we are. We can't tell people what God to pray to, who they should marry, who to vote for and what to do. I myself am so glad that in the past I didn't have the power to make someone believe what I believed in, because as I grow and learn, I discover how greatly wrong I am on so many things! Posted at 432am Immortality Monday November 5th/24th day of Scorpio Today the energy of immortality is in the air. I have always found it fascinating that we as humans have just accepted death so easily. Maybe we should be getting angry at the fact that we have to say goodbye to life and our loved ones at some point. And maybe we shouldn't just accept that at around 80, 90 if we are lucky, we just die. Maybe we should rail against death. Maybe we should do so out of such deep love of life. I think its good to fight for life. Don't accept it. Don't just accept death. Maybe if you we demand immortality we will get it. Posted at 214am It's For the Best Sunday November 4th/23rd day of Scorpio It seems really silly to bring up the Golden Girls TV show but I promise you there is good reason. I learned a lesson from that show that has always stuck with me. As you may know these four women lived together and really became like family on the show. As you may or may not know, one woman actually owned the house while the others rented from her. Well one day an inspector from the city came by and announced that it was illegal for this woman to be renting out her home to more than two renters and that one woman would have to move out! Well for the entire episode it was drama and fear and sadness and worry. This describes every problem that we as humans face. Something goes wrong, God forbid its cancer, disease, job loss, lack of money, arguments, betrayal, anything it may be leads us to drama, fear, sadness and worry. Well by the end of the episode the idea came about that the city may be able to throw out a renter but they cant throw out a co-owner. Meaning, the one woman decided to sell a share of the house to all the women she was renting to and all four women became co-owners paying the mortgage. I love this story because in the beginning the problem they faced seemed impossible. And it was! There was no solution what so ever to the renting problem. It couldn't be fixed. But, it could be transformed. And at the end, the women's lives were for the better, the co-owning brought them closer to being like true family members. Every problem we have in life is like this! We have a problem, we see no solution. But we must must remember that it is for the best. It is sent to us by a loving and compassionate universe wanting us to grow and change. Its like the sand in the oyster, that through time because the pearl. Or the coal that through time and pressure becomes a diamond. Lets trust and love whatever problem we have today. Love it. Bless it. Not because of stupid blind faith, but because the problem is really something that will benefit YOU! Posted at 1241pm Karnapidasana Last night I couldn't sleep. I had a horrible ear ache. I haven't had a ear ache since I was a child. I've been swimming a lot lately and thats most likely part of the reason. I have a healing book that tell you the spiritual cause for physical ailments. Its so fascinating. And for "ear ache" it says it deals with "peace to your neighbor." Last week a house guest arrived in my apartment and its been a tough few days so far. Tough how? Physically? No. Emotionally? No. Its been only my ego getting a big hit. Sacrificing your comfort is the only price that any spiritual task will ever asks for. It seems like such a small price but it can gut us to the core. I hope to be more loving and more at peace this week to my very very close neighbor. Posted 12:13pm Waking Up Saturday November 3rd/22nd day of Scorpio Is being spiritual an option? Is it just a quality that some possess and others do not? Is being spiritual a lifestyle preference? I spoke to someone today who told me that he just wasn't interested in spirituality. He was fine with the way his life is. Get up, go to work, come home, go out, maybe a date. Then sleep, get up, go to work, come home. Repeat all week long. Then the weekend comes. Go to shopping, go to dinner, movies and then it repeats all over again for the next 40 years???? Is this our purpose? I think the purpose of life is more than this. I cant say for sure what it is for everyone, but I can say with a great deal of certainty that we sometimes have to look hard and find our purpose and not get stuck in the physical for too long. We may regret it. Posted 548pm You Do What Works Thursday November 1st/20th day of Scorpio You have to give up your freedom if you want a relationship. Posted at 1110pm Unity One of the smartest things I ever heard came from Roseanne Bar on her blog at www.roseanneworld.com. She said suggested this spiritual exercise: Find someone you cant stand. Someone who you know for sure has the exact opposite belief system as you and then spend time with them. And when you find yourself ripe with anger and judgement and wanting to tell them all the ways you are right and all the ways they are wrong, sit with that and don't say word. Be still and speak to them with respect and find common ground. Fight the ego within. I love this exercise because its the true work of the Spiritual Warrior. The war is within! Fighting the ego within! Its not outside --- ever! Every enemy you have on the outside is a reflection of the enemy within. Posted at 1106pm Silent Partner Life is a co-created painting painted by us and another force that many call "God". We do it together. When a couple conceives a child, they start the process but it continues by this other Force. The joy of life is the awareness that you are not alone in your creating. The joy of life is the feeling of humility and mystery and wonder about all your blessings. Posted at 756pm The Mikveh Wednesday October 31st/19th day of Scorpio Today I went to Malibu and did a mikveh. A mikveh is the recreation of the mother's womb. You need to be submersed in a body of water of a certain size and of a certain water consistency. The ocean has these important requirements. Once in you submerse yourself completely underwater, repeat and dunk yourself from 10 to 101 times! Its important to be completely naked as clothing restricts the cleansing power. Not only is your physical body cleansed but your soul is cleansed as the water removes blockages that are not seen with the naked eye. This amazing spiritual tool does require believing that there are sometimes blockages in our life that we cannot see and the belief that water has the power to heal. Afterwards I find myself to be younger, wiser and more LIGHT! Try it! Posted at 1117pm The Hardest Thing To Do What if the money we had wasn't really ours but on loan to us from a spiritual bank. And the only reason we had it was to share it and give it away? I was once told a story that when we get to heaven everything will only cost a dollar. But the only money you'll have to spend is what you gave away during your life on earth. I wonder how absurd it looks from a distance to see so many of us on this planet hoarding money while others suffer and even die from malnutrition and poverty. Today I encourage you to share more than you want to not because you are gonna get something, but because there are people in need and next time around it could be you. "The opposite of love isn't hatred, its indifference." --Elli Weisel Posted at 1251pm Coat of Many Colors I was once told that there is no such thing as poverty except poverty of consciousness. This is Truth. Posted at 850am Bibleco International I am convinced now that about half of the commercials on TV are for drugs. Brought to you by drug companies, taking your money, making profit off of your sickness and promising the solution to your problem. Posted at 126am America I just saw on the news a story about how Americans our becoming poorer and poorer. The middle class is almost gone. We have seen those "other" countries where the people are living in squaller while the "ruler" sits on his throne with all the peoples' money. This looks like where we are heading. But the people in power have the money so why should they care to change things? I hope we all vote in this coming election and we think very hard on who is going to represent the working class' needs. Posted at 121am Porn Tuesday October 30th/18th day of Scorpio Tonight I was at the gym and there is about 10 TV monitors up for those of us working out. And I couldn't help but notice that on 4 out of 10 TVs there was a naked person or persons on the program. Now I wanted to escape the world of Leave It To Beaver just as much as the rest of us, but a cable world of soft porn wasn't what we had in mind. Posted at 11:08pm Taking Responsibility The ultimate form of responsibility is seeing how you indirectly play apart in the negativity on the planet. How do you enable the situation? (in the terms of Alcoholics Anonymous) This is bitter to see. For ultimately we secretly enjoy and live off an aspect of this negativity. We are like secret vampires. I know of this because of the alcoholism in my family. I have enabled the drinking because on some level I like when my loved one drinks. I have to give that up. And thats also not easy. But we have to see the end in the beginning and sacrifice what we need to. Posted at 418pm True Faith Caroline Myss says that at the darkest moments of your life, this is when you are closest to God. I guess this is true. Its hard though. But like a diamond, a little time and pressure is all we need to transform into something really beautiful. The wild waters of Scorpio are pounding and we can see a massive wave in the distance. Caroline has said that an authentic prayers is to say to God "I will accept any wind you blow my way." This is a prayer of trust and Certainty. Posted at 153pm Running From Fire One day I remember being in my car driving with such excitement to go get something at the store. It was something I really wanted and I was racing to get there. And I remember thinking how I certainly dont ever rush with such excitement to help people or to share. It made me feel disappointed in myself. Oh how the world would be so different if we all raced to help our fellow brothers and sisters. There would be no poverty, no famine, no disease. If we wanted these problems gone, they would be. They would be. Posted at 1242am Loving Kindness Monday October 29th/17th day of Scorpio People dont want to heal, they want to just take drugs. Why is true healing so hard? Maybe they just cant see the spiritual cause for the physical problem. So they just cant change something they cant see. Posted at 302pm Alcoholism the Epidemic On Thursday night I witnessed something I can't seem to shake from my head. I saw a young man so drunk he was running around in the middle of the street as her girlfriend was crying and struggling to calm him down. He then fell on the grass and passed out and she cried by him. This was on Fountain and Sweetzer. It saddened me very much. Alcohol slowly destroys are lives and bodies and its done so without us knowing because the alcoholic never sees himself drunk. Its a huge problem today. The new Ralphs on Sunset and La Brea expanded its store recently. But it didnt really expand it shrunk. What happened was its created 3 more isles of alcohol and a pharmacy (drugs). Ralphs even discontinued actually food items from its stock list (i checked with manager). This new expantion at Ralphs was really about removing food and adding drugs. I remember the scene from Back To The Future the movie where the corrupt and power Biff turned the whole city into liquor and gambling. Thats where we are heading with a government run by corporations and not the people. Posted at 111pm The War Room My teacher told me recently that life is a war. We are constantly fighting our desire to think of ourselves. Sharing is so hard. Loving is so hard. That is the battle. Sometimes we get stuck in the illusion, and we dont even know a war is going on. That truly is the worst. Posted at 317am Growing Pains Another thing about Suzanne Somers...... About a decade ago I heard her say that she realized that if a person wasn't on the Internet they were out of the loop. So she made here self learn to surf the net. She made herself learn because she wanted to stay modern and young. I feel that way about text messaging now. If you don't text message, you aren't keeping current..... Posted at 110am Eat Great, Lose Weight I made a Suzanne Somers souffle tonight. Its very low on the glycemic index scale. I recommend her information. www.suzannesomers.com. Keeping your diet low on the glycemic index scale is the key too health and hormonal balance! And a Libra like Suzanne Somers would know! She is so smart. On Oprah last week she had a doctor on who was saying the same thing Suzanne was saying since 1992! Posted 1215am The Womb Tomorrow I'm going to do a mikveh in the sea. A mikveh is the recreating of the mothers womb. You go into the sea naked and submerse yourself underwater. This act actually cleansing the mind, body and spirit. Its really that simple. It helps to remove blockages in my life. Posted 1205am In the Beginning........ Sunday October 28th/16th Day of Scorpio Today is a hard day spiritually. I know I am being pushed to grow and I am frightened but as you do your spiritual work, the work gets harder and harder. We all have made it through the worst part of Scorpio. The moon is on its 16th part. The fires, metaphysical and physical have past....But there is much to clean up........ Posted 350pm |

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